The Secret to More Money, Friends and Happiness

The Secret to More Money, Friends and Happiness

I'm going to be honest.
 
For a long time anytime The Abundance Mindset came up in conversation, I'd roll my eyes 🙄
 
How can I assume I have more, when I clearly don't?
How can I trust more is coming my way?
What do you mean I just think about things and it becomes a reality?


We all think abundance means more.
 
But really abundance is about having enough.
 
When you say:
 
‘I want more money.’
Really you want enough to live comfortably, pay your bills and spend guilt free on what you enjoy.
 
‘I want more friends’
Really you want enough friends to hang out with on evenings + weekends to feel, travel and hang out with. You may not want 20+ friends, you simply want enough.


‘I want more time’
Really you want enough time to spend time with family, relax guilt free or maybe work on a side hustle.
One of the biggest reasons we struggle to switch over to abundance, is because scarcity is fuelled by fear.
 
The Scarcity Mindset
 
We have no money because we fear receiving, spending, or misusing it.
We have no time because we fear falling behind when we rest.
We have no friends because we fear being judged.
We have no romantic partners because we fear rejection.
 
Scarcity's biggest weapon is fear.
 
If scarcity's biggest weapon is fear.
 
Abundance's secret weapon is trust.
 
To receive more, we have to trust in what we can't see.
 
The Abundance Mindset
 
To receive more:
We have to trust our hard work will pay off.
We have to trust that we will find the right person.
We have to trust that we can receive more by doing less.
We have to trust that going up to a stranger will work out.
We have to trust we can take time off we without falling behind.
Trust is the only way.
 
Scarcity (it literally has scare in the name) scares you into thinking force is the way.
 
Try harder. 
Do more. 
Don't rest.
Do everything yourself.
Don't trust other people.
 
It's about time we started to trust instead.
 
Where in your life do you currently feel like things are being forced?
How could your life change if you trusted a little more?

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